May is a very special month here in the Kingdom. May is the
month dedicated to celebrating the family. The first weekend is dedicated to
the children, the second to mothers, and the last to fathers.
Everything kicks off with a bang the first Saturday of the
month. Every Tongan and their
mother leave the village, head into Neiafu and shop ‘til they drop. It is
tradition that on this weekend, every Tongan child gets a new outfit. Each
family brings in clothes to sell the others. Known as ‘fairs’ these aren’t a laughing
matter as lookin’ good is the name of the game.
‘Sapate Fanau’ (Children’s Sunday) is the first celebration.
At Church…wait, did I tell you this was about church? I just kind of assumed
you would know that by now, but just in case, let me repeat…EVERYTHING here is
about Church.
Okay, moving on. Morning Church is an occasion to wear
white, as all the children are bedecked in Tongan dress to read and lead songs
during the service. Hold on to your butts folks…. running time for this service
with acted out Bible stories, thank you speeches, crying, AND communion….about
3 ½ hours. Man, it was a doozy. But the kids did a wonderful job and really
enjoyed being the ones who lead service.
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Lookin' good Tu'anuku! |
Next comes the main event, the Sapate Fanau performance. For
this year’s festivities, our church prepared several different programs that
all in all took another three hours to perform. Who is running this show? None
other than our Tongan mother, Tuki.
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The hardest working woman in show business, Tuki, with her daughter Ane. |
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Holy handsome! |
Finally, the performance goes off without a hitch. After
this is the traditional tea, where cake, cookies, and bread are served in
portions that literally inject the diabetes straight into the bloodstream.
While Abby and I are polishing off the last of the cake, and Tuki is giving the
thank you speech (still haven’t seen her sit down yet) we are brought out a tub
of ice cream as thanks for helping with the show. Which we consume at the 10 o
clock hour before sleepy time. It was the happiest and fullest moment of our
lives.
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My kind of dinner! |
Of course we could barely peel ourselves out of bed the next
morning and who do we see, leading the 5:30 am Church service, then heading to
her job in Neiafu, where she runs a kindergarten? You guessed it, Tuki.
On the next Sunday of Fakame comes Mother’s Day, which we
celebrate in Tonga along with the rest of the world. Here is where things get a
bit dicey. The good people of our village want us to have a baby. Very badly. Some are convinced we have children back in America but most just go on the full court press for us to have a baby in Tonga. Not gonna happen. But that didn't stop them from bringing us a multitude of traditional Mother's Day cakes and a feast on Sunday. All just to up the ante. Let me repeat Tonga, Not Gonna Happen!
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One of the cakes brought to us. |
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Our Mother's Day haul. We're still full. |
The rest of Mother's Day was great. We made Tuki her favorite dish and when it came time for each family to present a family prayer to the village, we stood with Tuki and Lolohea as part of their family. We are very blessed to have three amazing mothers, Nanners, Lisa and now Tuki!
That is all for now. Have a great week everyone!
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Very sensible choice at the fair, Ine. It works at home and school. Plus, ya know, its a cape. So that's good too. |